I’ve been talking a bit lately on MSN with a fan of this blog.  She sounds like just the kind of girl I need in my life…. she has some pretty wild fantasties and is turned on by the thought of two guys having fun.

Anyway, I did mention to this fan, that I have a fantasy of being fucked by a girl wearing a strap on.  To tell the truth I don’t think I’ve ever seen a strap on the flesh.

I’d be keen to hear from anyone who has brought up this idea with a woman and what kind of reaction did you have.

I’m off to watch the rugby – go the All Black and go the Wallabies!!!!

I haven’t bothered to check up on Wikipedia but my definition of a ‘quickie’ is….

Sex quickly… foreplay not required.

I only wish this was how I could describe my date last night with Laura but ‘quickie’ is going to describe this post.

Sorry for being short but I’ve got to drop around to the neighbours and I wanted to let you guys know what happened with my date last night with Laura.

It went awesome, I took her out to a wine shop in town where a friend of mine works and we got free tastings, then we went to a town 20mins away for dinner.  Dinner was awesome, we sat by the fire (I arranged that with a $50 tip to the guy earlier in the day), we sat there and drank a bottle of Pinot (the region here in New Zealand is renouned for their Pinot – I’m not a wine drinker so I can’t say one way or the other).

There is no way I could have set up a better ‘date’.  Laura was fantastic company as well and being the driver I was nice and sober and I didn’t say anything too stupid.

After dinner, I drop her off at her place (I’m playing it very smooth and don’t even suggest anything), I walk her to her door (she has housemates), I get a thankyou and a quick peck on the cheek and she is gone!!!!

Not even a ‘call me tomorrow’.

I’m sure I didn’t do anything wrong – I didn’t talk politics, I didn’t say what I think about Obama, politics, abortion or gay rights.  Those are the topics which I normally piss of my right wing friends and my gay friends alike.  I was awesome on this date and I don’t mind not getting laid but the goodbye was just so abrupt.

This is a new one for me guys – I know there a bunch of married guys who read this blog (which I think is awesome) and you guys probably have a better idea on this kind of thing than I do so any ideas on ‘what the fuck just happened’ or what the hell I should do next (I like this chick) feel free to pass on any advice.

Wow – I began this blog because I had an MMF threesome and I just wanted to tell someone about it and I couldn’t. 

So I created AussieSpeedoGuy.com.

Now I have an experience which I can’t really share with any of my ‘buddies’ and I’m sharing it with you guys.

Thankyou.

Thanks for the inspiration in your comments to my last post guys.

I did sack up and wear red speedos to the hottub with Laura and it went down just fine. We made out for the first time but I didn’t get to take off my speedos unfortunately.

It was a bit of a joke to start with, I wore my red Andrew Christian speedos which I LOVE (they are the only pair of Andrew Christian gear that I own – they are red with the white cross on the front)!!!!

I was bared up big time and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t surprised when Laura told me ‘no’.  If I was with a guy then I’m sure the speedos would have been removed quick smart.

I’ve had a pretty busy weekend just catching up with friends and there was some rugby on. I haven’t seen Laura since our hottub session but I’ll take her out for dinner in the next couple of days.

Here are some pics of the hottub center – it is beautiful but a little expensive at $40 per person for an hour hottub.  There are some natural hot springs up on the west coast and a trip up there for a couple of days with Laura would be more my speed.

To speedo, or not to speedo: that is the question.

Today is pretty grey and miserable (for those London or Seattle readers – perhaps today is kinda nice) so I’m not catching up with Laura but tomorrow I will.

I’m going to meet her in town for breakfast, then we’ll go snowboarding for the day and after that we’ll go to some private hottubs.  I’m very excited!!!

There has been very little physical interaction between the two of us and if I’m brave enuf I’ll make a move in the hottub.

But the question still stands, to speedo or not to speedo.

In a txt message when we were organising this I joked that I’d wear my red speedos and I think I got a laugh out of Laura.  She could be a good sport but it could also freak her out.  What I think I’ll do is wear my red Andrew Christian speedos and take a pair of boardies if I don’t think it is going well.

Well I’m off to watch the Stanley Cup (ice hockey) at one of the Irish Pubs in town with a couple of mates but speaking of red speedos…. I’d look better in my red speedos if I had this guys body.

Yesterday I went on my ‘blind’ date that I was setup with.

I’ll call her Laura on here.

Laura is a cutie, Canadian with ”aye’s” finishing every sentence, a little skinny but I suppose that is better than being a little fat.  She is super bubbly and a little hardcore.  I think she is a year younger than me – maybe 2.

So I called her over the weekend but she was working and we arranged to go for a hike yesterday (Monday) and the weather turned it on.  I picked her up in town and took her out to one of my favourite short hikes (2hrs, maybe a little more).  We talked the whole way ’round and when we finished up it was about 3pm so we dropped into a pub in town and had a couple of beers.

Laura had to work later so that was where the day was going to end.

I think it went really well and she txt’d me today – woohooo!!!!

The next ‘date’ is going to be to head up the mountain for some snowboarding and on the way home I’ll take her for a swim – should I speedo it up or not?  I’m not sure which day it will happen, will depend on the weather, but should be in the next couple of days for sure.

I can’t remember the last time I ‘dated’ a girl.  I was pretty nervous – with guys I’m always a little nervous but not as nervous as I was yesterday.

I’ll keep you guys posted on what happens.

On another front – I got a message from one of my online dating sites here in town from a guy who was keen to catch up.  This was last week some time and my reply was that I was keen to  have a discrete ‘fuck buddy’ in town and can’t wait to catch up with him.

Perhaps that was cumming on a little too strong as I haven’t heard from him since.